If there’s one thing that most people believe in when it comes to love, it’s leaving it up to the hands of fate. While fate may play a part in love, it’s in your power to change your current relationship from ‘single’ to ‘attached’. Here’s a few things you need to do to start changing your love life.
Get out of your comfort zone
We all love staying in our comfort zones because it’s where we feel familiar, safe and at ease. However, staying in it for too long can be detrimental to your dating life. If you find yourself getting too comfortable at home on weekends being a couch potato, it’s time to get out of the house and start socialising. You can consider taking up new hobbies as it increases the chances of you meeting someone. If you are in search for an activity to do, check out our events listings and get moving!
Keep an open mind
Have you always been in search of ‘the one’ but you just couldn’t find him or her? It could be because you are limiting yourself to the checklist which you have created in finding a potential partner. Meeting the right one isn’t about matching them to your ideal checklist but it’s about how they make you feel as a person and when you’re with them. Instead of trying to find someone who fits your checklist perfectly, be flexible and keep an open mind. When you are open to options, it may not be difficult to meet someone at all.
Let down the walls of your heart
It could be because of a bad experience in the past or witnessing your friends getting their hearts broken from a relationship which caused you to build up walls around your heart. However, you shouldn’t let that define you and stop you from finding love. The truth is everyone is afraid of getting hurt but if you never let down your walls, there’s a chance of you missing out even when the right one appears. Remember, the sun always shines after the storm. It may take a while but slowly and surely.